Work, chores, errands, and a never-ending to-do list – sometimes it feels impossible to do it all. We run ourselves into the ground while trying to and rarely stop to take a breath. We pile things onto our plate when we have no room left on it because we feel like we can’t say no. We have trouble justifying self-care because we convince ourselves that we just ‘don’t have the time for it’.
What if I told you there was a way that each one of us could add more of it into our lives and that instead of taking time away from us, that it would actually give us MORE time?
Yes, that’s right – taking even as little as 15 minutes a day to practice self-care can, over time, lead to lower stress levels, increased focus and more positive thoughts – thus increasing our productivity levels, which in turn allows us to accomplish our usual tasks in a lesser amount of time.
People often think of self-care as a luxury that only people without kids, without busy jobs or with a lot of down time get to enjoy. The truth is that self-care is an experience available to everyone that is open to prioritizing it, which is where we need to take an honest look at lives.
Many of us don’t prioritize ourselves for a number of reasons. We don’t believe we deserve it, we think we’re being a hero by putting others’ needs before our own, it gives us anxiety to not keep busy or to be alone with ourselves for more than a few seconds, etc. So instead, we keep our plates full with things that help us escape from that and we claim we just ‘don’t have the time’.
If you’ve recognized that you don’t make self-care a priority and have used the excuse that you don’t have the time (and trust me, we’re all guilty of it!), I challenge you to look inward and explore the other reasons that you don’t MAKE the time.
Perhaps you can start by:
- Setting your alarm 10 minutes earlier & starting the day with a guided meditation
- Taking some time to sit down & read a book while you enjoy your morning coffee
- Sitting outside during your lunch break instead of at your desk
- Listening to an audio book or podcast on your commute to/from work
- Spending a few extra minutes in the shower doing some deep breathing
- Jotting down a list of what you’re grateful for
- Doing a brain-dump when you wake up & before you go to bed to write out your to-do list, daily goals and/or random thoughts
- Keeping a journal with you throughout the day to write down thoughts/feelings as they arise
- Taking a walk around the block while listening to music
Are these things you think you could implement once a day? Once a week? Once a month?
Self-care doesn’t have to be all or nothing. It doesn’t have to be a full day at the spa or nothing at all. But we often assume that it does, which is why we usually just throw in the towel on it altogether.
If we can open ourselves up to prioritizing self-care in small ways, it will allow us to see the effects that it can have on our lives and empower us to prioritize it in larger ways, too.
In what ways can you add a little self-care to your life without disrupting your usual routine? What’s holding you back from getting started?
Give yourself permission, start small, and embrace it. And above all else, remember: you deserve to make some time for you.